Saturday, 3 June 2017

Ego ~ Self esteem ~ Standpoint....


                                         It's a bright and sunny morning today and I am able to experience the sunrise from the balcony of my home. It's the instant at which the upper edge of the Sun appears over the horizon in the morning. I feel like receiving tremendous positive energy and  am sure most of us watching the sunrise must have undergone the same experience. I bowed before Sun God and offered my small prayer as is my wont.
                                        God and Universe have been very kind to have blessed me with this new abode and I am truly grateful to them for the same.
AirAsia CPV                                         Human beings are confronted with many a thoughts when they decide to write spontaneously on a subject of their choice. Today I was thinking of going back to my engineering course time period because that is where I left before blogging on a few topics of great importance. But I then realized that I must share my experience and learning on ego vs. self esteem vs. standpoint this time and this is what I am exactly doing today.
Airtickets                                          Ego is the "I" or self of any person; a person as thinking, feeling, and willing, and distinguishing itself from the selves of others and from objects of its thought.
Admitad IN                                          Psychoanalysis, the part of the psychic apparatus that experiences and reacts to outside world and thus mediates between the primitive drives of the id and the demands of the social and physical environment.
Reliance Jio CPS                                           Self - esteem is confidence in one's own worth or abilities; self - respect. In sociology and psychology, self-esteem reflects a person's overall subjective emotional evaluation of his or her own worth. It is a judgement of oneself as well as an attitude towards the self.
Myntra CPS
                                          Standpoint is described as a position from which objects and principles are viewed and according to which they are compared and judged; a way in which something is thought about or considered.
eBay IN                                           Ego is absolutely people based; situation dependent and invariably involves the other person in the equation. Standpoint is independent of people or situation; it is issue based and will never have the other person in the equation.
Swiggy CPA                                           Self-esteem is a very important part of success in life.Too little self-esteem can leave us feeling defeated or depressed. It can also lead us to make bad choices, fall into destructive relationships, or fail to live up to our own full potential.
Bigbasket App sale                                           But we will be well advised to keep it within check because too much self-esteem is destructive. It can even damage personal relationships.
HepFly Mobil [iOS&Android,non-incent,TR]                                           Self-esteem levels at the extreme high and low ends of the spectrum can be damaging, so the ideal is to strike a balance somewhere in the middle.
Oyorooms IN                                           I remember in my college days when many professors used to close the lecture theater doors right on dot of scheduled class timings. I experienced this in my corporate life also and to tell you frankly I liked it because I am also in the same mould. It does not mean that they were egoistic; rather they had their own standpoint on these issues.
PractoOrder CPS                                           I also followed it in my corporate life. I used to say that when we never miss a movie or a train or a flight; why can't we be punctual in corporate life too ? There is a great difference between being in the office 5 minutes before scheduled start timing rather than being 5 minutes late even though the system may permit it. People understood my standpoint and many of them even tried to follow it.
Limeroad IN                                            It will not be out of place to mention here that we should do the seeding in this regards in the children at a young age so that they are able to understand and handle life with ease.
TinyDeal INT                                          This has helped me immensely in my personal life too. I have very rarely, in fact never if my memory serves me right since I understood it,  missed my appointments, train, flight or a movie for any reason attributable to my own self. Moreover, it always helped me in being mentally and physically ready for any important occasion.
                                         Sometimes we tend to change our standpoint for the sake of convenience but let us remember that If it can be changed then it is not standpoint. If we do not stand on our standpoints in our lives, we will fall for everything.
                                         Every moment will become heavy, every situation will be nerve - wracking, every interaction will be tense.
                                         An ego filled heart is always walking on fire. Never can there be a moment of marriage between ego and ease.
                                         But with standpoints in life, life becomes easy and smooth for us and for people around us, because our decisions will be  made based on standpoints and not on situations.
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Decision making becomes very difficult without standpoints.
Ego based life is chaotic. Standpoint based life is orderly.

Choice is ours

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